When I scroll through social media, I’m often struck by posts from young professionals celebrating the opportunity ‘to bring their whole selves to work’. The glaring contradiction between Gen Z’s demands for authenticity (from brands, politicians, parents and employers) and the behaviour I observe in a variety of workplaces is not lost on me.
For example, I have heard Zoomers insisting on psychological safety in team meetings, then avoiding the difficult conversations necessary to resolve problems, manage risks and share learning. I’ve also witnessed them advocate the need for clear work–life boundaries, then respond to emails late into the night, naively demonstrating their commitment to the job.
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There is something universal about these discrepancies. As psychologist Carl Jung recognised, we all contain shadows. These include those aspects of ourselves that we reject, suppress or fail to acknowledge, including both our flaws and our untapped potential. Often, the shadows can be found in the gap between what we say and what we do.
It’s not uncommon for public figures to illustrate how our shadows can sabotage even well-intentioned attempts at authentic communication. When influencer Molly-Mae Hague told podcaster Steven Bartlett that “we all have the same 24 hours in a day as Beyoncé”, she thought she would inspire his The Diary of a CEO audience. Instead, as many pointed out, she revealed how blind she was to her own privilege and assumptions.
Problems with leadership authenticity have long fascinated psychologist Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic, author of Don’t Be Yourself. He argues that people in positions of influence and authority should bring their best self not their whole self to work. For Chamorro-Premuzic, the problem lies in how power and status can diminish self-control and amplify our darker characteristics. Unfiltered authenticity, where we share what we think without reflection or act on impulse, impacts those around us. At best it confuses, at worst it causes harm, especially when a powerful figure’s own shortcomings are projected on to other people.