But Swimming with Men is not about synchronised swimming. The characters could just as easily be part of a knitting circle, a book club, a pub quiz team or a brass band. The movie is about belonging, male bonding and being part of a team that can keep you afloat when you feel like you’re sinking.
“Absolutely,” says Brydon. “The men in our film are all in need of something – the sense of community and the sense of belonging is very important to them.
I would be a simpleton, wouldn’t I, if I said, ‘Oh, we laughed. Every day we would look at each other and say, Look, you’ve got trunks on’. Actors are always dressing up.
“It addresses where we are in 2018 and where men are because of the gender politics. There are such huge changes going on. And I do think that there are a group of men who find themselves slightly adrift and not quite sure what role they are meant to fulfil.”
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For Brydon, understanding his character’s emotional repression was key.
“It’s one of the acting challenges. Thinking about how all the men relate to being part of this group and the awkwardness they feel. As an actor, generally, you don’t feel that.
“Because I’m told most men as they get older, their social circle dwindles. Apparently this is a fact. But for me, because of the nature of what I do, my social circle is constantly regenerating.
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“Also, there’s his awkwardness at the physicality of reaching out and grasping someone’s ankle. Again, as an actor you do all sorts of strange things and get used to it. It becomes your life. For Eric, who works in an office job that isn’t satisfying him, it is a little intimidating.”
Talk turns to trunks.
“People ask me about The Trip [the improvised comedy series in which Brydon stars with Steve Coogan] and what was my favourite meal. Well, I’m not really thinking about the food,” he says. “I am thinking about how am I going to be funny. The food is just there, a bit like the trunks in this.
“I would be a simpleton, wouldn’t I, if I said, ‘Oh, we laughed. Every day we would look at each other and say, Look, you’ve got trunks on’. Actors are always dressing up.”
He missed out on team sports at school but found his people elsewhere. “I was not in the football team or the rugby team beyond when it was compulsory,” he says. “My team was drama. I was always in the drama studio and rehearsing the school show – that is where I got my communal, group feeling.”
All these years later, although he didn’t need lessons in emotional openness or physical intimacy from his new role, he did acquire some skills to unleash on his next holiday. “It is very physical and very difficult. When you look at what real synchro swimmer women do, it beggars belief,” he says.
“By the end we could do it. But comparing us with the proper women who do it at the Olympics is like comparing someone who jumps off a ladder to an astronaut.”
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Swimming with Men is in cinemas from July 6.