Paul Sinha has described the “very brutal” way his mum discovered he was gay in a letter to his younger self featured in this week’s Big Issue (26 August).
“My mum found out I was gay through an act of emotional sabotage when one of my friends in medical school got drunk at a party, rang her up and let her know,” the Chaser reflects. “So that wasn’t ideal, and it took quite a long time for the wounds of that very brutal revelation to heal up. But heal up they did.
“I think the thing that would most surprise the 16-year-old me is that I found myself not only a boyfriend, but a husband. And that my mum and dad would enjoy the wedding day thoroughly and have a great time, and would be totally approving of the whole thing.”
Sinha also recounts on a nasty racial mugging he experienced as a teen. “When I was 16, I went to watch my beloved Liverpool FC win the FA Cup at Wembley Stadium,” he says. “It was a bittersweet experience for me because it was great seeing my team, but I was racially bullied on the train up.
“I was mugged for the first time, by Liverpool fans who found my posh accent immensely amusing. At one point they asked me, because of my ethnic background, whether I actually spoke any English at all. Then they took my watch at the end as a sort of symbol of their victory over me, just to humiliate me. But I refused to let it spoil my enjoyment of the game, because Liverpool beat Everton 3-1.”
Following a career in stand-up comedy, Sinha joined ITV quiz show The Chase in 2011 as the ‘Sinnerman’, tasked with out-quizzing contestants before they can reach a cash prize. “I took to it like a duck to water. I just loved it,” he tells the Big Issue.
